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Fire signs -

The bold and charismatic fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius) are fun-loving and have an infectious energy. They sometimes struggle to know what's good for them, though.

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Aries (March 21–April 19) -

When it comes to choosing a partner, Aries, you're all about excitement. In particular, you want someone who looks great, since you appreciate attractiveness in all its forms.

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Aries (March 21–April 19) -

What you actually need, however, is a partner who you won't get bored of. Someone who is patient with you and who won't run at the first sign of trouble.

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Leo (July 23–August 22) -

It should come as no great surprise, Leo, that you want someone who is your biggest fan. You love attention, and that's no different when it comes to finding love.

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Leo (July 23–August 22) -

What you really need, however, is someone who is not afraid to tell you how it is. Someone who is wise, understanding, and ready to grow with you.

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Sagittarius (November 22–December 21) -

The idea of a committed relationship likely scares you, Sagittarius, so what you may want is a partner who is a little dangerous and a lot of fun.

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Sagittarius (November 22–December 21) - Having fun isn't everything, however. What you really need is a partner who will offer you consistency, without making you sacrifice your independence.

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Air signs - The sociable and intellectually curious air signs (Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius) often set high expectations for their relationships. Sometimes they are completely unrealistic.

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Gemini (May 21–June 21) -

You have high expectations for your relationships, Gemini, and what you really want is someone who has it all. Often, you'll choose a person just like yourself.

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Gemini (May 21–June 21) -

What you need, however, is someone who can balance out your personality. The ideal partner will have a personality that complements yours, not mirrors it.

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Libra (September 23–October 23) -

When looking for love, Libra, what you really want is a relationship you can flaunt in front of others. You want people to be wild with jealousy at how romantic you both are.

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Libra (September 23–October 23) -

Most important for you, however, is that you find your best friend, not a trophy partner. Someone you can talk to properly and who won't take advantage of your kindness.

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Aquarius (January 20–February 18) -

Aquarius, you're just like your fellow air sign, Gemini. When it comes to choosing a partner, you want everything rolled into one, and you're certainly not willing to sacrifice your freedom.

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Aquarius (January 20–February 18) -

What you really need, however, is independence, which is distinct from freedom. With independence you can still be your own person, but also be in a solid relationship.

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Water signs -

The sensitive and caring water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces) tend to spend more time than the other signs thinking about what they want from their relationships. That doesn't mean they always get it right, however.

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Cancer (June 22–July 22) -

It should come as little surprise, Cancer, that you want a relationship that is all affection. Ideally, you and your partner would never argue, because there is just too much love between you for that.

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Cancer (June 22–July 22) -

Of course, this sort of relationship is not realistic, and other signs couldn't even imagine it. What you really need, Cancer, is someone to help you relax and loosen up.

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Scorpio (October 24–November 21) -

You're more than familiar, Scorpio, with the power that comes with having control in your relationship. Indeed, you may want a partner who is submissive to you at all times.

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Scorpio (October 24–November 21) -

What you actually need, by contrast, is someone with a backbone who is not afraid to stand up to you. Another non-negotiable is loyalty in every situation.

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Pisces (February 19–March 20) -

You may want a fairy-tale romance, Pisces, or even a partner who feels a little unloved or lost. You might not admit it, but you find the idea of 'fixing' someone very romantic.

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Pisces (February 19–March 20) -

What you really need, however, is a relationship with someone strong enough to be their own person and who does not want or need to be fixed.

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Earth signs -

Grounded and practical, the earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) tend to be realistic about what they want from their relationships. However, that doesn't mean they don't need a dose of the magical from time to time.

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Taurus (April 20–May 20) -

You enjoy the finer things in life, Taurus, and that goes for relationships, too. The kind of relationship you want is straight out of a romantic movie.

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Taurus (April 20–May 20) -

Much more important, however, is that you have a relationship with mutual respect. After all, you know better than most that if there's no respect, there's no relationship.

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Virgo (August 23–September 22) -

A very independent and capable sign yourself, what you want in a partner, Virgo, is someone very self-sufficient who will do what you tell them.

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Virgo (August 23–September 22) -

What you need, however, is someone who will appreciate everything you do for yourself and others. Your ideal partner makes you feel safe and happy, and is very confident in themselves.

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Capricorn (December 22–January 19) -

Capricorn, it might seem like the most important trait in your potential partner is self-sufficiency. You want someone who is like-minded and who won't get in the way of your work and ambitions.

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Capricorn (December 22–January 19) -

What you really need, however, is a partner who helps you get out of your head and to appreciate that the best things in life are right in front of you.

Sources: (Britannica) (YourTango)

See also: The sad reasons why some good relationships don't last

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