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Social media trend -

The broken jewelry theory is a relationship theory that originated on, and was spread by, social media platforms, such as Instagram and TikTok.

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In a nutshell -

In a nutshell, the theory suggests that when a piece of jewelry breaks, it means the universe is trying to tell us something about one of our relationships.

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Key concept -

The broken jewelry theory hinges on the idea that items of jewelry are not merely physical possessions—they carry emotional and sentimental value, too.

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Being realistic -

Of course, sometimes a broken necklace is just a broken necklace. But other times, it can seem to be so much more than that.

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Open to interpretation -

Ultimately, the significance of a broken piece of jewelry lies in the owner’s individual interpretation. It could either be a coincidence, or a sign from the universe that something in our life has been broken or transformed.

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Origins -

Let's take a brief look at the origins of the broken jewelry theory. As with so many other relationship theories, it started on social media.

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Gaining momentum -

It gained momentum quickly, because in recent years elements such as gold, gemstones, and crystals have taken on more of a spiritual significance.

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Healing properties -

Of course, people have believed in the healing properties of precious stones and materials for centuries.

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Energy shields -

Many people believe, for example, that stones such as amethyst and quartz are energy shields that absorb negativity and offer protection.

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The role of social media -

Social media platforms have brought these discussions and beliefs to the forefront. The result is that more and more people believe broken jewelry has a spiritual significance.

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Favorite interpretations -

While the meaning is very much up to the individual to decide, there are some favorite interpretations that come up time and again.

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Jewelry from current partner -

If a piece of jewelry from a current partner breaks, for example, this could signal that there is some sort of conflict between the two of you.

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Jewelry from current partner -

Equally, an item of jewelry that goes missing could signal a level of emotional distance between you two.

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Jewelry from former partner -

If jewelry from a former partner breaks, this could be a signal that you have moved on from the relationship.

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Jewelry from former partner -

Equally, it could be a nudge from the universe telling you to let go of any lingering feelings you may have for that ex.

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Jewelry from friend or family member -

If you are constantly forgetting or losing a piece of jewelry given to you by a family member or friend, this could suggest the relationship is not being properly nurtured.

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Jewelry from friend or family member -

A recurring problem with the same piece of jewelry might indicate that there is an unresolved issue in your relationship with that person.

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Jewelry from yourself -

Finally, if you notice a problem with a piece of jewelry you bought for yourself, this could represent a shift in your personal life.

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Jewelry from yourself -

For example, if an old bracelet keeps falling off, this could indicate that you are outgrowing an old version of yourself.

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Main tenet -

The main tenet of the broken jewelry theory is that items of jewelry are much more than just accessories.

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What it represents -

Indeed, a ring can represent a strong romantic bond; a bracelet, a lifelong, nurturing friendship.

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Broken symbol -

It is the personal connection that gives jewelry meaning; the personal connection means that broken jewelry is a broken symbol as well as a broken object.

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Amplifying feelings -

When an item of jewelry breaks, it can amplify our feelings about the person who gave it to us.

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Example -

For example, if you break or lose a necklace from a friend with whom you lost contact, this can amplify feelings of sadness and/or anxiety.

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Gaining insight -

However, a broken piece of jewelry can also help us understand more about our relationships and what they mean to us.

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Rushing to repair -

For instance, if you rush to repair the bracelet your sister gave you, this may indicate a desire to mend your relationship with her or to hold on more tightly to important memories.

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Neglecting to repair -

If, on the other hand, you choose to neglect the broken bracelet, this could indicate a reluctance to deal with emotional issues.

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Taking time to reflect -

In general, it is important that you give yourself space to reflect on what your broken jewelry means to you as an individual.

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Whatever you decide -

Whether you consider it a random accident or a symbolic message, it is always a chance to reflect on your relationships.

Sources: (Verywell Mind)

See also: The sad reasons why some good relationships don't last

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