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Removing the stigma
- It's hard to believe it, but it's actually not that long ago that divorce was illegal. In the meantime, broader societal opinion has shifted significantly. But how did we get here?
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1 / 30 Fotos
Divorce becomes normalized
- In 1969, the then Governor of California, Ronald Reagan, signed the US's first no-fault divorce bill into law. It took away the requirement to prove wrongdoing in order to file for a divorce. At the same time in the UK, the Divorce Reform Act was passed, also removing the need to prove "fault."
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Divorce becomes normalized
- In the decade and a half that followed, most states followed the lead of California, introducing no-fault divorce bills of their own.
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3 / 30 Fotos
Religion, the state, and marriage
- Up until the 1960s in the US, people were more likely to look at marriage as a duty and obligation, something that required sacrifice.
© Shutterstock
4 / 30 Fotos
1960s and marriage
- No-fault divorce removed the legal power of marriage to bind husband and wife together, allowing unilateral divorce—where just one spouse could request the marriage be dissolved—for no reason at all.
© Shutterstock
5 / 30 Fotos
1960s and divorce
- From 1960 to 1980, the divorce rate more than doubled, going from 9.2 divorces per 1,000 married women to 22.6 divorces per 1,000 married women.
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6 / 30 Fotos
Free love and the hippie movement
- In the 1970s, spouses found it easier to find partners outside of marriage, while women's employment levels were increasing and feminist consciousness was rising.
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Free love and the hippie movement
- The churches began to lose their footing as moral authorities, who had previously reinforced the idea of the marriage vow.
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8 / 30 Fotos
The suburban family
- Prior to the '60s and '70s, a decent job, white-picket-fence home, and several children constituted the ideal suburban life.
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The 'soul mate' situation
- The psychological revolution of the '70s had given way to a new version of marriage, based on subjective happiness: the soul-mate marriage.
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Individualism
- Rising individualism and the soul-mate model meant dissolving a marriage was seen as a chance to make oneself over, from the inside out.
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11 / 30 Fotos
Divorce rates
- In the early 1970s, 70% of married men and 67% of married women reported being very happy in their marriages. By the early '80s, these figures had fallen to 63% for men and 62% for women.
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12 / 30 Fotos
Divorce rates
- As divorce rates climbed to record highs, the reported levels of marital quality dropped. After reaching their peak in the '80's, divorce rates have steadily reduced since.
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13 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- In the older, institutional model of marriage, parents were supposed to stick together "for the sake of the children."
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14 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- However, by the end of the 1970s, it was more widely believed that children would be happier if their parents were able to leave unhappy marriages.
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15 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- In the meantime, research has shown that in cases where children are exposed to high levels of conflict, they seem to do better later in life if their parents part.
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16 / 30 Fotos
Effect of divorce on adults
- As divorce became more normal, studies became available about its effects on adults too. Around 20% of divorced adults find their lives enhanced and another 50% seem to suffer no long-term ill effects.
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Effect of divorce on adults
- The adults who initiated a divorce are especially likely to report that they are doing well afterward, or at least fine.
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18 / 30 Fotos
Effect on marriage
- Perhaps one of the biggest changes divorce has had societally is on our concept of marriage itself. In fact, marriage rates have fallen, while cohabitation has become the norm.
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19 / 30 Fotos
Effect on marriage
- Perhaps some of the popularity of cohabitation lies in a fear of divorce, as people seek a longer time to get to know a partner before they consider marriage.
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20 / 30 Fotos
Empowerment
- A slight majority of Americans believe unhappy couples tend to stay married for too long, rather than get divorced too quickly. Divorce is now viewed as an empowered choice.
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21 / 30 Fotos
Empowerment
- As children and intimacy can be had outside of marriage, the pressure to uphold the institution of marriage has been loosened, and people can more easily direct life on their own terms.
© Shutterstock
22 / 30 Fotos
Celebrity divorce
- In the past decades, celebrity divorces have been a common part of popular culture, helping to normalize divorce even further.
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Repurposing the ring
- Repurposing engagement rings has also become more common, as people seek to transform the meaning of their jewelry upon divorcing.
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Events
- There's also been a rise in a whole new phenomenon: divorce parties. Company Evite saw a record number of divorce-related invitations in 2023, up 22% since 2019.
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Divorce registry
- Divorce registries have also emerged, as the splitting of assets and the need for new household items emerges, as people look to their network for support.
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Divorce party
- Some US nightclubs have reported a rise in the number of divorce parties taking place, while the hashtag #divorceparty has nearly 70,000 hits on Instagram.
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Staying single
- It also reflects a wider societal trend: more and more people are staying single, whether by choice or circumstance. Divorce is viewed as less important through a modern lens.
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A new chapter
- Regardless of the reasons, social acceptance of divorce is at a record high, as people begin to write a new story: even if it differs from the one they originally planned! Sources: (CNN) (National Affair) (The Guardian) (Axios)
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0 / 30 Fotos
Removing the stigma
- It's hard to believe it, but it's actually not that long ago that divorce was illegal. In the meantime, broader societal opinion has shifted significantly. But how did we get here?
© Shutterstock
1 / 30 Fotos
Divorce becomes normalized
- In 1969, the then Governor of California, Ronald Reagan, signed the US's first no-fault divorce bill into law. It took away the requirement to prove wrongdoing in order to file for a divorce. At the same time in the UK, the Divorce Reform Act was passed, also removing the need to prove "fault."
© Shutterstock
2 / 30 Fotos
Divorce becomes normalized
- In the decade and a half that followed, most states followed the lead of California, introducing no-fault divorce bills of their own.
© Shutterstock
3 / 30 Fotos
Religion, the state, and marriage
- Up until the 1960s in the US, people were more likely to look at marriage as a duty and obligation, something that required sacrifice.
© Shutterstock
4 / 30 Fotos
1960s and marriage
- No-fault divorce removed the legal power of marriage to bind husband and wife together, allowing unilateral divorce—where just one spouse could request the marriage be dissolved—for no reason at all.
© Shutterstock
5 / 30 Fotos
1960s and divorce
- From 1960 to 1980, the divorce rate more than doubled, going from 9.2 divorces per 1,000 married women to 22.6 divorces per 1,000 married women.
© Shutterstock
6 / 30 Fotos
Free love and the hippie movement
- In the 1970s, spouses found it easier to find partners outside of marriage, while women's employment levels were increasing and feminist consciousness was rising.
© Shutterstock
7 / 30 Fotos
Free love and the hippie movement
- The churches began to lose their footing as moral authorities, who had previously reinforced the idea of the marriage vow.
© Shutterstock
8 / 30 Fotos
The suburban family
- Prior to the '60s and '70s, a decent job, white-picket-fence home, and several children constituted the ideal suburban life.
© Shutterstock
9 / 30 Fotos
The 'soul mate' situation
- The psychological revolution of the '70s had given way to a new version of marriage, based on subjective happiness: the soul-mate marriage.
© Shutterstock
10 / 30 Fotos
Individualism
- Rising individualism and the soul-mate model meant dissolving a marriage was seen as a chance to make oneself over, from the inside out.
© Shutterstock
11 / 30 Fotos
Divorce rates
- In the early 1970s, 70% of married men and 67% of married women reported being very happy in their marriages. By the early '80s, these figures had fallen to 63% for men and 62% for women.
© Shutterstock
12 / 30 Fotos
Divorce rates
- As divorce rates climbed to record highs, the reported levels of marital quality dropped. After reaching their peak in the '80's, divorce rates have steadily reduced since.
© Shutterstock
13 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- In the older, institutional model of marriage, parents were supposed to stick together "for the sake of the children."
© Shutterstock
14 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- However, by the end of the 1970s, it was more widely believed that children would be happier if their parents were able to leave unhappy marriages.
© Shutterstock
15 / 30 Fotos
Family and children
- In the meantime, research has shown that in cases where children are exposed to high levels of conflict, they seem to do better later in life if their parents part.
© Shutterstock
16 / 30 Fotos
Effect of divorce on adults
- As divorce became more normal, studies became available about its effects on adults too. Around 20% of divorced adults find their lives enhanced and another 50% seem to suffer no long-term ill effects.
© Shutterstock
17 / 30 Fotos
Effect of divorce on adults
- The adults who initiated a divorce are especially likely to report that they are doing well afterward, or at least fine.
© Shutterstock
18 / 30 Fotos
Effect on marriage
- Perhaps one of the biggest changes divorce has had societally is on our concept of marriage itself. In fact, marriage rates have fallen, while cohabitation has become the norm.
© Shutterstock
19 / 30 Fotos
Effect on marriage
- Perhaps some of the popularity of cohabitation lies in a fear of divorce, as people seek a longer time to get to know a partner before they consider marriage.
© Shutterstock
20 / 30 Fotos
Empowerment
- A slight majority of Americans believe unhappy couples tend to stay married for too long, rather than get divorced too quickly. Divorce is now viewed as an empowered choice.
© Shutterstock
21 / 30 Fotos
Empowerment
- As children and intimacy can be had outside of marriage, the pressure to uphold the institution of marriage has been loosened, and people can more easily direct life on their own terms.
© Shutterstock
22 / 30 Fotos
Celebrity divorce
- In the past decades, celebrity divorces have been a common part of popular culture, helping to normalize divorce even further.
© Getty Images
23 / 30 Fotos
Repurposing the ring
- Repurposing engagement rings has also become more common, as people seek to transform the meaning of their jewelry upon divorcing.
© Shutterstock
24 / 30 Fotos
Events
- There's also been a rise in a whole new phenomenon: divorce parties. Company Evite saw a record number of divorce-related invitations in 2023, up 22% since 2019.
© Shutterstock
25 / 30 Fotos
Divorce registry
- Divorce registries have also emerged, as the splitting of assets and the need for new household items emerges, as people look to their network for support.
© Shutterstock
26 / 30 Fotos
Divorce party
- Some US nightclubs have reported a rise in the number of divorce parties taking place, while the hashtag #divorceparty has nearly 70,000 hits on Instagram.
© Shutterstock
27 / 30 Fotos
Staying single
- It also reflects a wider societal trend: more and more people are staying single, whether by choice or circumstance. Divorce is viewed as less important through a modern lens.
© Shutterstock
28 / 30 Fotos
A new chapter
- Regardless of the reasons, social acceptance of divorce is at a record high, as people begin to write a new story: even if it differs from the one they originally planned! Sources: (CNN) (National Affair) (The Guardian) (Axios)
© Shutterstock
29 / 30 Fotos
Breakup parties? Understand the evolution of divorce
Its reputation has come a long way in the past few decades
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It's hard to imagine, but it wasn't that long ago that we didn't have agency over our own lives and relationships. Divorce has become pretty standard today after decades of slow changes to legislation and tradition. The outlook on divorce reflects a broader societal shift in recent years, about what it means to be in a committed relationship.
So, how exactly did we get to a point where divorce is seen as something to celebrate? Click on to discover the evolution of divorce.
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